Hey pretty girlie pops! I just had a few things running through my head that I think every girls should know and so I wanted to remind you.
Whether you’re in middle school or high school or college, I can pretty much guarantee that most of us girls fantasize on a pretty regular basis (okay so like every second of every day) what a most perfect fairytale relationship would be like that with THAT ONE guy. Let’s be honest, I know some boy’s name just popped into your head. Maybe it’s the boy that sits next to you in Chemistry class, or maybe it’s Thomas Rhett. Either way, I’ve been there. Well the truth is, perfect fairytales love stories don’t exist. BUT every girl can have their own kind of fantasy.
A lot of times we feel pressured to be in a relationship or to have “our person”. I think now days that often leads to a whole lot of compromise. When life goes on and when we don’t find that perfect person we’re looking for, we become impatient, compromise, and settle. We defend people because we think they’re worth it. We compromise what we know we want because we don’t think we will actually ever find it. We even settle for someone we KNOW isn’t right for us because we don’t think we have a better option. The hardest part is, sometimes we even convince ourselves that we are doing nothing wrong. We confuse what God wants for us, with our own worldly desires. But let me tell you one thing darling... never ever ever settle. And don’t ever ever ever forget your worth.
I’ve been running through the past three years of my life, with a boy having hold of my heart. Before I️ go on, I️ wanna say that he had my heart for all the right reasons. I️ loved him, he loved me, and I’ll never speak a negative word about him. Unfortunately, him having my heart meant that he had some undefined power over me. The power to make me feel a certain way about myself. The power to make me feel a certain way about him. He even had the power to determine the course of my day based on wether or not he wanted to be nice to me. Now I️ know that in this season of life, it’s time for me to surrender 100% of it to God.
How beautiful is it to give my heart to someone who I️ know for a fact will always love me. He will ALWAYS think I’m beautiful.
Keep your standards high and trust that God has a plan for you. Don’t let just any boy have you heart because you’re worth solid gold and you deserve someone who never lets you forget that. Not even for a second. Even in the worst moment you deserve someone who makes you feel safe, and makes you feel loved. Run after Jesus and wait for the man that will run after him too. You deserve to be prayed for and fought for and cherished. So in the mean time, wait patiently and pray for your future mans too. Stop worrying about finding the "perfect person", and work on yourself. Become the person, that your "perfect person" will want to be with!!! and never, ever, EVER, forget your worth.
"She is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her." Proverbs 3:15
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